Is My Loved One’s Spirit Sending Me Messages?

Is My Loved One’s Spirit Sending Me Messages?

One of the most common questions I’m asked is:
“Is my loved one trying to send me signs?”

And the answer is almost always yes.

Our loved ones don’t just disappear. Their physical body leaves, but their energy — their essence — continues. And when the grief softens just enough for us to feel again, their spirit begins to reach out in the ways they know we’ll notice.

Sometimes the signs are subtle.
Sometimes they’re impossible to ignore.
But once you understand the language of spirit, you realise they’ve been with you all along.

Here are the most common ways they send messages.

Feathers, Flowers & Little Treasures in Random Places

One of the simplest ways spirit communicates is through physical signs placed directly in your path.

You might find:

• A feather where it makes no sense

• A flower appearing in an odd place

• A coin exactly when you need comfort

• Something small that reminds you of them

These are not random.
These are gentle, physical love notes from the other side.

Spirit uses the physical world because it’s something we can’t brush off as imagination. These signs are placed with intention — a reminder that you are loved, guided, and not alone.

Smells That Come and Go for a Moment

Have you ever been sitting quietly and suddenly smelled their perfume?
Or a scent like cigar smoke, baking, flowers, or aftershave — even though no one around you is wearing it?

This is one of the strongest forms of spirit communication.

Our loved ones use scent because it carries memory.
It hits straight into the heart.

These quick, unexpected scents are their way of stepping close to you, letting their presence be known for a moment.

It is not your imagination.
It is a visit.

Lights Flickering or Electrical Glitches

Spirit energy is subtle but powerful. And sometimes it interacts with electricity.

If lights flicker when you’re thinking of them…
If your phone freezes for a moment…
If the TV turns on or off…
Or if something electric acts unusual…

This is often spirit trying to get your attention.

They don’t do this to scare you — it’s simply one of the easiest ways to move energy in the physical world.

Their Favourite Song Suddenly Plays

Music is one of the clearest communication channels between the physical and spiritual worlds.

You might hear:

• Their favourite song

• A song that meant something between you

• A song with a message you needed that day

And it plays at the perfect time — when you’re thinking of them, missing them, or needing reassurance.

These “coincidences” are never coincidences.
It’s a direct message: “I’m here. I hear you. I’m with you.”

Glimpses of Light or Movement in the Corner of Your Vision

Many people think they’re imagining these quick flashes, sparkles, or shadows that appear and vanish instantly.

You’re not imagining it.

This is one of the most common signs of spirit presence.

Our loved ones often appear in our peripheral vision because that part of our sight is more sensitive to subtle energy. You may notice:

• A flicker in the corner of your eye

• A soft glow

• A tiny spark of light

• A shadow-like movement

This is their energy moving close to you.
It’s their way of reminding you they’re only a breath away.

How You Know It’s Really Them

The truth is, the sign itself is only half the message.
The knowing you feel in your body is the other half.

Spirit signs always bring:

✔️ A sense of warmth or comfort
✔️ A sudden wave of emotion
✔️ A feeling of peace or closeness
✔️ A sense of “This was meant for me”

If you feel those things — it was them.

Spirit communication is energetic, not logical.
Your heart recognises what your mind tries to dismiss.

A Final Message for You

Your loved ones are closer than you think.
They visit, they guide, they comfort, and they celebrate you from the other side.

They do not leave you.
They simply love you from a different place.

If you’re reading this, it’s likely because you’ve already been receiving signs… and you’re ready to understand them more deeply.

When your loved one reaches out:

Pause.
Acknowledge them.
Say thank you.

They hear you — always.